How should I approach Relationship Building?

I recently asked ChatGPT for tips on Networking for Business School students. Here are the tips recommended to effectively navigate networking:

1. Be Authentic and Genuine:

  • Show Genuine Interest: Focus on building authentic relationships rather than just expanding your network. Ask thoughtful questions and show a sincere interest in the other person’s experiences and insights.
  • Be Yourself: Don’t try to fit into a mold or be someone you’re not. Authenticity fosters trust and helps you connect with people who will genuinely support your career goals.

2. Leverage Alumni Networks:

  • Reach Out to Alumni: Use Yale’s Alumni databases to identify people working in your target industries or companies. Reach out for informational interviews, seeking advice rather than directly asking for job leads.
  • Stay in Touch: Maintain these relationships by following up periodically, sharing your progress, and expressing appreciation for their guidance.

3. Provide Value in Return:

  • Offer Help: Networking is a two-way street. If you come across information, articles, or connections that could be valuable to someone you’ve met, share it with them. It shows that you’re thinking of them and are willing to help.
  • Be a Connector: Introduce people in your network who might benefit from knowing each other. This positions you as a valuable resource and strengthens your relationships.

4. Attend Industry Events:

  • Participate Actively: Attend coffee chats, conferences, seminars, and networking events related to your target industry. These are prime opportunities to meet professionals and build your network.
  • Follow Up: After meeting someone at an event, send a personalized follow-up email to express your appreciation for the conversation and to keep the connection alive.

5. Utilize Social Media:

  • Engage on LinkedIn: Connect with people you meet and engage with their content by liking, commenting, or sharing posts. It helps keep you on their radar and builds familiarity.
  • Share Your Journey: Post about your MBA experience, insights from projects, or industry-related content. It demonstrates your expertise and keeps your network updated on your progress.

6. Be Consistent and Patient:

  • Nurture Relationships Over Time: Building meaningful relationships takes time. Regularly check in with your contacts, update them on your progress, and continue to offer value.
  • Stay Patient: Don’t rush the process. Allow relationships to develop naturally, understanding that the benefits might not be immediate but will pay off in the long run.

7. Seek Out Mentors:

  • Identify Potential Mentors: Look for individuals who can provide guidance and support throughout your job search. A mentor can offer valuable advice, make introductions, and help you navigate challenges.
  • Cultivate the Relationship: Approach potential mentors respectfully, expressing a clear understanding of what you hope to learn from them, and be open to their feedback.

By focusing on building genuine, mutually beneficial relationships, you’ll create a strong support network that will be invaluable in your job search and throughout your career.

By Mike Minutoli
Mike Minutoli Senior Director, Career Education and Coaching